Sex: Between Fantasy And Reality- By Michael West

Many cases of high blood pressure, heart and kidney ailments experienced by men especially young men have been traced to side effects of sex enhancement drugs. This soaring trend is in desperate bid to satisfy women and feel on top of the bedroom game. Attaining the heights of erotic performance often buoy their masculine confidence, certified their romantic skills and become the pride of their women. This is not attainable without dire consequences on their health conditions.

Between the ages of 18 and 40, men, naturally, shouldn’t have issues with their sex life. Using sex pills to enhance performance within this age bracket is abnormal. Erectile dysfunction, quick ejaculation and waning libido are indications of poor health or early genital abuse like masturbation. Surprisingly, many consumers of these synthetic sex pills are young men in their 30s and early 40s. By the time many of them are barely five years in marriage, serious sex problems would set in. Another five to eight years down the line, anxiety, drug abuse, psychological stress and emotional imbalance coupled with possible half-treated infections will ravage their sex life leaving their women in quandary and emotional frustration.

The genesis of this abnormal penchant for sexual triumph, as my findings with men having such issues had revealed, commonly emanates from watching pornographic videos and peer influence. The desire to equal the strength, skills and duration of porn stars fired their inordinate search for sex pills.

This, they choose to attain being ignorant of its consequences on their health and sex life. Scientific researches confirmed that most of the so-called “natural” supplements for men often contain dangerous drugs some of which have never been tested on animals let alone humans. Many of the trusted brands had since been adulterated and they are in circulation worldwide. For instance, over 45 different versions of drugs in the same class of Viagra have now been found in male sexual supplements. In fact, a product sold as “Rock Hard for Men” in 2012 turned out to contain not only counterfeit Cialis (tadalafil) but also a diabetes drug that can be deadly if used incorrectly. A similar combination killed more than a dozen men in Asia in 2009. I remember reading about a man that was rushed to a teaching hospital here in Nigeria having slumped into coma following the use of some of sex pills to ‘bang’ his babe.

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The essence of sex is for three major purposes as ordained by the Creator:

*For companionship, which is God’s answer to loneliness. Many unmarried adults including single parents are undergoing emotional solitude because there’re no steady partners to meet their sexual needs. While it is easier for men to prowl for sex partners, most women do conceal their urges for sex. Big thanks to social media platforms as many women now hook-up easily and some of the online relationships do end in marriage.

*For procreation, which is God’s legitimate route to replenishing the earth. Increase in human population is only by births. The only way we can replicate our images or look-alikes is through having children which is the outcome of sexual intimacy between husband and his wife.

*For moral purity, which is God’s design to keep the relationship between man and woman holy, approved and acceptable to Him. To do otherwise is to vitiate the sanctity of divine purpose for sex. Deliberately, God added flavour of sweetness, fun and satisfaction to sex to keep the couple happy, satisfied and faithful in the relationship.

The importance of sex, in addition to the aforementioned, is to keep the couple knitted, excitedly desire and satisfy each other. As a man, you don’t have to kill yourself to prove your masculinity in the bedroom. As a man advances in age, so his organs, strength and nerves get weaker; but pure natural herbs, food supplements, good rest, exercises and balanced diets will supply needed nutrients to keep him active, strong and sexy.

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Women also contribute to this malaise in men. Sexually exposed women often compare their men with their ex. They relive with nostalgia how their former guys made them moan, scream or even weep in ecstasy while the action lasted. Women do share porn videos with their men with follow-up questions like “Can you rock me like this?” or “Can you perform like this dude?”
They often forget that porn stars usually perform under the influence of drugs. According to 2008 study of United States and Canadian sex therapists, sex that is “adequate” lasts three to seven minutes while “desirable” lasts seven to 13 minutes. Honestly, if you are able to attain the “adequate” level, you are very okay!

Sex is the height of consummation of love and commitment. It is the strongest emotional bond and psychological affinity in relationships. Sex is meant to be enjoyed. It is a moment that is devoid of shyness and pretence. It’s an urge that craves for the partner’s corresponding actions. It’s a moment when every move, touch and breathe count. It’s a moment where every part of the body has a role to play. It is a field of bodily exploration and adventure. Sex has healing effects. It stimulates desires for each other. It stabilises emotional imbalance, calm stressed nerves, fights insomnia and rejuvenates cells. Sex lightens the mood, resolves conjugal quarrels, sustains intimacy and enhance performance at work. Sex boosts concentration and regulates mood swings. I have a lot more to write on this topic but this is enough for now.


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